Some things ARE better left unsaid

The more interactions i have with people this simple fact has really stood out to me, some things are better left unsaid. Here is a huge, momumental thought! when you are about to say something, and its something that will make someone feel bad about themselves, or make them feel stupid, or even not wanted, dont freaking say it!
I understand our need to have our opinions heard, and it really is a great thing that we live in a world where our opinions can be heard, its amazing really, but with that choice to have your opinions heard, that is also the good choice of sometimes just keeping silent. because seriously why would you intentionaly say something that would hurt someone you love.
I'm not talking about just mention something in passing that hurts an extremely senstive people and you cant always pretict how your words will effect others. but use good judgement, these are people you know! people who you have been around for a long time, you know the things that hurt them, why in the love of god would you just say something hurtful! get a blog! if its really that important to you to be heard, more important then the ones you love, then get your opinion to yourself, where it wont cause horrible contention and hurt people. and if what you say does hurt people, have the good will to say sorry, that these are the people that you love and that love you, would you really let petty differances, disagreements and down right stupid dramatic crap, get in the way of you loving the people that you should. So lets let it go, get over it, remember that what you say really does effect others and learn to act more responsable towards your words.
why can't we all just get along, why? because people are way to complex to understand their train of thoughts and what guids their actions, but that never means you should stop trying